Choosing People
Love, copyright Janet Hovde
Who brings out the best in you? And why?
Think about 2 people with whom you are your kindest, brightest, funniest, best self. Describe them.
For me, the first is a friend in the art quilting world. She is open-minded, free to explore, interested in learning and figuring things out. She brings curiosity to the table. (My husband, with years of training experience, says one of the biggest barriers to learning is “knowing.” For example, if I believe I know the answer and already have the correct view, I am less attentive to what I am being told or shown.)
The second friend who comes to mind shares many of my experiences as a healer. She sees me fully, loves me, is kind always, and wants me to be happy.
In different ways, these two people take responsibility for themselves and for their own well-being. It is easy to have clean boundaries with both of them.
I really want to know. Who brings out the best in you? And why?
Janet, you have given me food for thought here. I will have to ponder that question as I go out in the forest for a walk shortly. 🙂
That is such a great question. I think I’d have to say my mom does. I never feel judged by her. I always feel supported by her. I know she wants nothing more than me to be happy and successful. She makes me want to be a better person.
As I read your post a tear rolled down my face. I’m not sure I have an answer to that question. I will think on it
One person who brings out the best in me is my wonderful husband Mike. He encourges me in all areas of my life and is my biggest advocate. Today I was in Maplewood seeing my doctor for a procedure I need to go through, but don’t enjoy. My husband came with me for support and then took me to Baker’s Square for breakfast (and free pie!). Afterwards he asked if I wanted to check out a quilt store he had spied on one of his trips to the are. We stopped by Twin Cities quilters and I fell in love!. The colors and patterns were a balm for my soul. spmething interesting came up as I was chatting with the owner…I mentioned I have been taking classes from Janet Hovde and she siad, ” did you see the woman who was leaving as you came in? She just bought some fat qurters for a class with janet Hovde”. I thought that was interesting, but I told her I take classes in expanding my energy, not quilting, but I know she does both. So I would have to say that you, Janet, are also someone who is helping me to bring out the best in myself.
What a sweet article. I am super blessed with some great people in my life. It would be hard to pick just two! Each friend has different qualities that I adore. My husband is very supportive of me and my daughter is always so loving. I appreciate the suggestion to ponder this!